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U-Irina Govorukha ungumbhali, intatheli, i-blogger. Umbhali wamanoveli athi "Umlutha Wokuphila", "Cishe Uthando Lokugcina", "Gynecologist" kanye nezindaba eziningi ezingokomzwelo nezindatshana, u-Ira azokwabelana ngazo nabafundi bethu kukholamu yakhe esizeni Okuwukuphela kwayo.
Eminyakeni eminingi edlule Indaba yokuqala ka-Irina Govorukha yanyatheliswa kumagazini wokuphrinta Okuwukuphela… Futhi manje, ngemva kwesikhashana, sifuna ukuqhubeka naleli siko elimangalisayo.
Wayehlale engemuva kwengilazi. Ngemuva kombukiso wengilazi wesitolo se-china. I-Plain, ene-braid eqoshiwe. Ijezi elilula, i-jeans evela emakethe. Ayikhumbuleki. Cha, kwakukhona into eyayingaqondakali ngaye. Ukukhanya kwenundu. Waphaphatheka phakathi kwamashalofu futhi waletha ama-decanters engilazi e-Murano anemibala noma izitsha zokubhaka ezinomuthi wexoxo. Wasonga ngobuhlakani yonke into ngephepha futhi wayiveza njengokungathi igolide laseGibhithe lasendulo okungenani. Kuthuleke kahle, ethinta icici. Uphuze ikhofi ngokubhuqa, elula izindebe zakhe ngotshani. Ngokusobala wayesaba ukushiswa. Ngenjabulo wahlola izindwangu zetafula zesitayela seProvence futhi wabala amakhandlela.

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